There are several interesting dialogues with others that are recounted by Katy, I give a couple of samples here:
Here she is speaking to one of her spiritual mentors, Dr Cabot:
"'There is one thing more that troubles me,' I said. 'Most persons know the exact moment when they begin real Christian lives. But I do not know of any such time in my history. This causes me many uneasy moments.'
[Dr Cabot]'You are wrong in thinking that most persons have this advantage over you. I believe that the children of Christian parents, who have been judiciously trained, rarely can point to any day or hour when they began to live this new life. The question is not, do you remember, my child, when you entered this world, and how! It is simply this, are you now alive and an inhabitant thereof?'"
In this next excerpt Katy has just had a former friend, Amelia, die, her husband, a doctor, attended her last moments on earth:
"'What do you think,' I asked, 'about her last days on earth? Was there really any preparation for death?'
'These scenes are very painful,' he returned. 'Of course there is but one real preparation for Christian dying, and that tis Christian living……..I do not now recall a single instance where a worldly Christian died a happy, joyful death, in all my practice.'
[Kate]…..'Well, in one sense it makes no difference whether they die happily or not. The question is do they die in the Lord?'
'[her husband]It may make no vital difference to them, but we must not forget that God is honored or dishonored by the way a Christian dies, as well as by the way in which he lives…..I can tell you, my darling, that standing, as I so often do, by dying beds, this whole subject has become one of great magnitude to my mind. And it gives me positive personal pain to see heirs of the eternal kingdom, made such by the ignominious death of their Lord, go shrinking and weeping to the full possession of their inheritance.'"
There are several thought provoking dialogues like the above. And many little statements that are intriguing as well, a few of which I give here:
"You can will to prefer a religion of principle to one of mere feeling; in other words, to obey the will of God when no comfortable glow of emotion accompanies your obedience."
"It is repining that dishonors God, not grief."
"People ask me how it happens that my children are all so promptly obedient and so happy. As if it chanced that some parents have such children, or chanced that some have not! I am afraid it is only too true, as someone has remarked, that this is the age of obedient parents!' What then will be the future of their children? How can they yield to God who have never been taught to yield to human authority…?"
A year after her oldest child died she writes:
"It is a year ago this day that the brightest sunshine faded out of our lives, and our beautiful boy was taken from us. I have been tempted to spend this anniversary in bitter tears and lamentations. For oh, this sorrow is not healed by time! I feel it more and more. But I begged God when I first awoke this morning not to let me so dishonor and grieve Him. I may suffer, I must suffer, He means it, He wills it, but let it be without repining, without gloomy despondency. The world is full of sorrow; it is not I alone who taste its bitter draughts, nor have I the only right to a sad countenance. Oh, for patience to bear on, cost what it may!"
Now, there were statements and things that I didn't agree with, such as Kate thinking that her little children do not need to learn that they are sinners until they get older, though they do need to learn about Christ. That doesn't make a lot of biblical , or even common, sense to me. Wasn't that one of the most important things about Christ? That he came to die for the sins of His people? Or when she indicates that when we die, we leave our bodies forever. I don't know if she believed in the resurrection of our physical bodies? Things like that bothered me.
But overall, I still really liked the book and found it quite spiritually edifying. Kate grows in the Faith, becomes more patient toward others, learns to not trust her own judgement, learns to trust God more and more, learns that whatever trials He ordains for her to face are lovingly ordained to make her more Christ like. The book is very well written and really keeps the attention, or at least it kept mine!
Now, I must say something about this particular edition that I am reviewing, published by Ichthus Publications. The cover is pretty, the format of the text inside the book is very nicely laid out and readable. But….this edition needs to be proofread. There are typos ALL OVER this edition, periods and commas out of place or missing, and sentences that were practically unintelligible. Here's a sample:
"In the first place, Helen would be perfectly if she had the care of father in his present. She is too young to have such responsibility….She is one of those little tender, soft souls one could crush fingers."
I don't think I've ever had to rate a book based on numerous typos and missing words. But I'll have to do that with this one. I feel really bad having to do this, but I need to rate this edition at only three stars. Normally I would rate this book at five stars, but this is not a good edition of Stepping Heavenward. I love the book, I just don't like this edition. If they would fix the typos it would be great!
Thanks to the folks at Ichthus Publications for sending me a free review copy of this book (My review did not have to be favorable).
Rating of Prentiss' book: Five Stars *****
Rating of this edition: Three Stars ***